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Overcoming victim mentality
Something we all need to be reminded of from time to time is how to dust ourselves off, buck up, and shake off victim mentality. We all...
Oct 16, 2023


How to approach an overwhelming amount of work
We all find ourselves staring down an enormous amount of work. Let’s divide this into two categories. The first is the acute high...
Oct 9, 2023


Processing surgical complications
This is a love letter to all my friends who work in surgery. But even if you’ve never stepped foot in an operating room, keep reading. ...
Oct 2, 2023


Embrace Failure
What is failure? The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines failure as the “inability to perform a function.” Failure is: One attempt at...
Sep 25, 2023


Live according to your values
It is worth taking time to sit and reflect on your core personal values. Come up with 3-5 values and write them down. Keep them in a...
Sep 18, 2023


New Identities
There are a few great reasons to embrace new identities. The first is to shift into better alignment with your essential self. Move...
Sep 12, 2023


Circle of Control
The things that we can control in life fit into a small circle. They are few but very powerful. Each of us can only control ourselves,...
Sep 5, 2023


It’s All Optional
It’s so easy to fall into “I have to” mode. How many times a day do each of us say “I have to?” I have to work, pick up my kids, take...
Aug 28, 2023


Processing Negative Emotion
My previous blog post discussed buffering negative emotions. A natural subsequent topic, then, involves what to do instead with those...
Aug 21, 2023


Buffering
Unpleasant or unwanted emotions are dealt with primarily three ways – resisting, lessening, or processing through them. “Experiential...
Aug 14, 2023


Increase Your Emotional Reserve
We all have an emotional reserve. This is the space between a potentially triggering event and a negative or dramatic reaction. We can...
Aug 7, 2023


The Self Coaching Model, Categories of Human Experience
Everything that we experience in life can be broken down into categories. This really resonates with me as a physician, because of its...
Jun 12, 2023


Introduction to Life Coaching
For those of you who are new to life coaching, you may be asking yourself what is a life coach and why would I need one? Life coaching...
May 30, 2023


Inspiration
I spent many hours in my angsty youth driving around in my Cavalier listening to Ani Difranco, my original life coach. I learned so much...
May 24, 2023


Ideal Day
One of my favorite coaching tools is the Ideal Day. Take some time to sit quietly and really imagine what your ideal day looks like. ...
May 24, 2023


Trusting Your Body Compass
Your brain will lie to you, but your body will not. Your body always knows. Your body warns you when you are talking to someone...
May 24, 2023


How Effective is Coaching?
For all of you academic skeptics out there, this post is for you. I am you. I love the field of medicine’s skepticism, requirement of...
May 23, 2023


Essential Self vs Social Self
You can think of your person as divided into the essential self and the social self. Happiness and fulfillment requires a balance of...
May 10, 2023


Difference between psychiatric care, therapy, and life coaching
Psychiatric care is provided by a psychiatrist – a medical doctor who has completed an undergraduate degree, medical school, and a...
May 8, 2023
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